Celebrating Shavuos Alone

One of the joys of living in Israel for a Jew from Amerca is the way in which the rhythms of the Jewish calendar are felt in the public square. Almost all families sit down to a Seder. And even in non-religious neighborhoods, many families build sukkot and light the Chanukah menorah. On Yom Kippur, the streets fall largely silent, and a large majority of the population fast.

Shavuot is the glaring exception. It lacks any special customs in which all can join. Eating cheese will not bring a secular Jew any closer to the essence of the day. Many religious Jews stay up all Shavuot night learning, and walk to the Kotel for the long early morning prayers. But these activities offer few attractions for those for whom Torah learning and prayer are not already part of their lives.

Secular Israelis can attach universal messages to other holidays: Pesach as a celebration of freedom; Yom Kippur as a day of self-examination and repentance; Chanukah as triumph of resistance to tyranny. Not so Shavuot.

True, Shavuot has universal significance. Our Sages (Chazal) comment that if the Jews not accepted the Torah, the whole world would have returned to its original formlessness, for Creation was brought into existence only for the fulfillment of Torah. But for those Jews – the vast majority of world Jewry – for whom the study of Torah and the observance of its mitzvot have long ceased to be relevant, that message does not resonate. Shavuot offers nothing.

That is a tragedy for religious Jews, no less than secular. The receipt of Torah required the entirety of Klal Yisrael – k’ish echad ve’lev echad. And today something is lacking in the kabalat HaTorah of each and every one of us, as long as the study and observance of Torah is the province of only a small percentage of Jews.

Laying the blame for the irrelevance of Torah to most secular Jews is besides the point. There is more than enough blame to go around.

The task for religious Jews is to demonstrate that Torah has something to say about every aspect of life, and is is not confined to the beit medrash or the settlements.

Consider a hypothetical 35-year-old secular Jew, with a wife and three children. One day he awakens with a vague feeling that something is amiss with his life. He is seized by the desire to make his life more Jewish, and feels the need for a connection to G-d.

Yet he has never opened up a Talmud, his wife does not yet share his feelings, and his bank balance is negative. He is not, in short, a candidate to take up the life of a kollel student tomorrow or to send his children to chareidi schools in Bnei Brak or Jerusalem.

Unless the religious community offers him, and all those like him, some alternative, the moment of spiritual awakening will pass with nothing to show for it.

And we will be celebrating Shavuot alone again next year.

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5 comments to Celebrating Shavuos Alone

  • Joel Rich

    Good thoughts but where exactly does the Torah tell us that the essence of Shavuot is the receipt of the Torah? Perhaps secular folks could relate to the agricultural nature (Exodus 34:22) or the thanks for the bounty (Dvarim 16:10) specifically mentioned in the Torah. Customer focus is the key to marketing.
    KT

  • Ori Pomerantz

    It’s hard for people who dwell in cities and see food coming from a supermarket (= most of us) to relate to the agricultural nature of Shavuot (or Sukkot, for that matter).

    Torah study for secular Jews would be an excellent idea. The main problem is to make it about studying, rather than “these are the things you need to do which you haven’t so far”.

  • Sammy Finkelman

    The interesting thing is that there are many secular or semi-secular Jews who take part in Simchas Torah which in some ways covers the same territory except that it is not from the Torah. So you can’t say there is no way to celebrate the Torah.

  • mycroft

    Joel is correct-there is a machlokes when the Torah was given. I believe in Yemen the Yeminites stayed up all night on the 2nd night of Shavuot. An obvious reference to the viewpoint the Torah was given then. Of course, in Israel there is no 2nd night of Shavuot.
    In addition bizman hazeh-when no Beis Hamikdash there are essentially no laws special to Shavuot see eg the Chayei Adom-only mentions the Gra abolishing the custom of vegetation in synagogues.
    Shavuot like Shminei Azeret is the culmination of other holidays-Succot and Pesach.
    In the Diaspora about 1000 years ago the custom of Simchat Torah was established for the 2nd day of Yom Tov-iot became so popular that Israel took the customs and put it on the 1st day. Similar in Shavuot customs about learning Torah developed. But neither are certainly the essence of the days as given by the Torah.

    After tne minor nitpicking I should say I like the post immensely for the general thoughts presented.

  • Yaakov Rosenblatt, Dallas

    We have the same challenge in the US Kiruv world: what can we offer a man/woman who has a sudden craving for spirituality but whose spouse is not so inclined (and often scared by its intensity)?

    Here the solution is at hand: the inspired can take classes, attend Shabbos meals, and not feel it is an all or nothing endeavor. And it can be perceived as “doing his thing” by the spouse.

    But not in Israel.